More Than Just Words
Reading and Literacy Tips May 11th, 2007The KL International Book Fair was held recently. With the idea of expanding my little bookshop, I went to check it out hoping to hook up with some distributors with good children books. I’ve been going to these book fairs the last few years and the experience is always the same. There is greater emphasis on teaching children to read rather than to love reading. As I was browsing through the stalls, I was quickly pulled aside by a salesman who insisted that his program will get my child reading by 3 years of age. The idea was to get them to watch cartoons that would flash words at the bottom of the screen. These visuals, he says, is what will help them learn how to read. And there are activity books to go along with the vcd. Of course, I didn’t buy into that idea.
But the reason why I was talking to him in the first place was because I saw displayed in his stall some books that I felt children would love to read. The first thing I told him when he approached me was my intention to buy books to resell at my shop. But I guess he decided to ignore that and tried to sell me his ‘wonderful’ program. I was disappointed.
Looking around I also saw an assortment of reading gadgets, workbooks, revision books and more programs to get your child reading. I thought to myself, YOU GUYS ARE MISSING THE POINT! Reading is more than just deciphering words on a page.
The ‘kiasu’ epidemic among parents is widespread. The race to get a child to read as early as possible sometimes dismisses the idea that first, we have to teach our children to love reading and love books. How do we do that?
1. Read with your children without any ‘teaching’ agenda. Read just for the pure reason of enjoying the story. Pick up a book and say “I wonder what this story is about?” Create curiosity in your child. Show your own excitement and joy when reading e.g. “Oh, I can’t wait to read what happens next.”
2. Make connections to the story as you read. Make comments like:
“Hey, you are the same age as the boy in this book.”
“Soon you will be going to school like Sister Bear here. Are you as nervous as she is?”
“Look, she can dress her ownself, just like you.”
You could even make your own personalized book — A Book About Me. Children love to read about themselves.
3. Get your child involved in the story. Ask thought provoking questions:
“What do you think he should do?”
“Do you think it is right what she did?”
“How do you think it will end?”
“What would you have done?”
“Which part of the story did you like? Why?”
4. Bring the story to life with expressions and using different voices.
Now, some of you parents may say, my child is too young for this kind of reading. They can’t sit still, they don’t pay attention, and they would rather chew on the book. I say read anyway. You don’t have to make it a 30 minute reading session. If they can only take 3 minutes of reading, grab that opportunity. Find something appropriate to read like a nursery rhyme book. Instill in them the idea that when a book is opened, something exciting happens e.g. mommy sits down with me, she sings, she does silly voices and faces, we move our hands and fingers etc….
Have them equate book=fun time.
So please remember, reading is more than just memorizing words on a page. Aim to have your child love reading, not just to be able to read.











May 11th, 2007 at 11:47 am
Hi Lian, thanks for dropping by my site. BTW, I’m glad that you did.
Now I have a great blog to read about children books and reading with children. I agree with you that lots of parents are kiasu, and the market is emphasize on teaching the kids to recognize words, rather than building the passion for books.
I used to work in education line, but I slowly quit because I don’t feel like forcing kids into tuition.
I read to my kids, but not word by word. I just like spending time like this with them.
Haha! My first comment and it’s so long……….
May 13th, 2007 at 10:23 pm
I loved what you’ve wrote about this! I am getting reminders of not commiting this…trying to get my daughter to read…I am a book lover..and of course I am eager to get my daughter to be interested ..however after reading what you’ve wrote, I am taking extra care not to make it into teaching them how to read instead! Thanks!
May 16th, 2007 at 11:36 am
Hi shoppingmum,
You were in the education line? I’m sure you can teach me more about children’ education then. Yeah, this tuition disease is getting out of hand. You can write long comments here anytime.
Hi Molly,
Yes, it’s really easy to get sucked into the “teach how to read” instead of the “love to read” attitude.
May 31st, 2007 at 9:16 pm
Hi Ai Lian,
I agree with you on teaching children to love to read. My son who is 6 years old loves to read. Likewise is my daughter who is 3 years old. I’m a book collector and I buy books for my kids according to their interest. I think the reason my kids love to read is because they see me reading a book everyday and see the joy I feel with my books. Books are treasures in my home. There is a saying “lead by example” and that’s one way of teaching kids to love to read.
August 3rd, 2007 at 12:42 am
Hi Lian – i know u have writeen this a long time ago but as you know, I am trying to introduce reading to my girl. I fully agree with your post above and have been doing exactly that. It serves as a good bonding session as well. Even I I dont achieve being able to teach her to read (which shw will accomplish in schiool anyway, at least she will learn much more
January 14th, 2010 at 7:06 pm
Love Perusing your blog… always interesting. Thankyou!!!