Secret to Making An A+ Student
Parenting Skills June 11th, 2008Do you know what is the secret to raising an A+ student? The answer is revealed in Reader’s Digest Asia. Here is a statement from their feature article:
Dozens of studies have shown that the most consistent indicators of student achievement - more than income or social status - are the home environment and parental involvement.
They highlighted 3 families where the children have excelled - a Malaysian homeschooling family, and single Filipino mother of three and a Singaporean mother.
Reading the comments and experience of these 3 families, I found a common trait — they all read to their children and encourage their children to love reading. Here are excerpts about the 3 families.
- The Malaysian family - “Most critical of all, there are books - a home library with all kinds of books for adults and children. Their parents began reading to the children when they were just a few months old, instilling a love of books. “
- The single Filipino mother - “…she had to get her kids reading early on. So she took them to the local public library. “They borrowed books after their nursery classes and read at home.” At night, she read aloud to them despite being tired after a full day of work.”
- The Singaporean mother - “She reads to her children ‘all the time.’”
So as you can see, the “nursery” for raising an A+ student is not at school or tuition centers but at home. Parents need to be involved in their children’s learning and one of the most important thing you can do for your children is to teach them to love reading. It starts with 2 very simple acts:
- Read to them often
- Create a home library so they are always surrounded by books
This is one good parenting skill we should all strive for.












June 16th, 2008 at 7:19 am
Great article - reading is one of the most rewarding activities you can do with your child and encourages learning from an early age.
June 21st, 2008 at 3:10 am
Interesting and very encouraging.I love reading and although my baby is only 8 months old,I want to make him into a good reader.
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June 23rd, 2008 at 12:26 am
I read that article too. It takes a lot of hard work on the parents’ side to inculcate the love for reading in their kids, but the results are really worth the hard work and sacrifices made.
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June 23rd, 2008 at 10:21 am
No need to reiterate the importance of reading to me!
I’m really curious about homeschooling though. Do you homeschool your kids? I wonder how it works in a situation where the family moves around a lot…
I’ve read studies on the negative effects of frequent moves on children’s self-esteem and socializing. Friends are so important in a child’s life.
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