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	<title>Value Bookshop&#039;s Reading Notes &#187; Parenting Skills</title>
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		<title>Keeping Kids Party Games Fun &amp; Fair</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 16:19:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>lian</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[birthday games]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[You always have games at a party, and since kids love to run around, you might as well organize the mayhem. Whether you are hosting your child’s birthday party inside or out, keeping it fun and fair is a must. Here are some ideas.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You always have games at a party, and since kids love to run around, you  might as well organize the mayhem. Whether you are hosting your child’s  birthday party inside or out, keeping it fun and fair is a must.</p>
<ul>
<li>Make sure to have an activity for the kids to enjoy while they wait for  all guests to arrive, like an activity book or word search.</li>
<li>As the children arrive, take pictures of each party guest with the birthday child as another activity.</li>
<li>Pick games where everyone can participate.</li>
<li>Be sure there&#8217;s plenty to do &#8211; plan more games and activities than you have time for.</li>
<li>Don&#8217;t forget about safety: balloons are a choking hazard for babies  and toddlers; favors sometimes have tiny parts meant for older kids; and  swinging a bat at a pinata is always cause for caution during game time.</li>
<li>Keep the prizes small so kids don&#8217;t get jealous, or get their feelings hurt.</li>
<li>If the kids are getting too wild, it&#8217;s time for a sit down game or story (keep one on hand).</li>
<li>Include non-competitive games, maybe even crafts.</li>
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<p>By keeping these simple tips in mind, you&#8217;ll be sure to have a party  that will be fun, safe, and fair for all of the children who attend.</p>
<p>If you want save time and effort, click here for <a href="http://valuebookshop.com/printable-birthday-party-games.htm" target="_self"><strong>fun printable birthday games</strong></a>.</p>
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		<title>Preparing For Your Child&#8217;s First Day At Preschool</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Aug 2010 15:20:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>lian</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Parenting]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Preschool can be very difficult for young children.  They may have separation anxiety issues. Here are 2 tips to make that first few days of preschool go smoother.]]></description>
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<p>Preschool can be very difficult for young children.  They don’t have a concept of time, so it is hard for them to understand that they will be at the preschool for a portion of the day and then you will pick them up again.  Kids can have a difficult time letting their mom or dad leave.</p>
<p>Everyone has seen scenes where a child is clinging to their parent, tears coursing down their face, and the parent is reluctant to leave, glancing around for some help.  This is not only hard for the child, but also for the parent.  I think we have all seen or faced this experience.</p>
<p>Situations like these can be less stressful if you follow 2 simple ideas.</p>
<ul>
<li> <strong>Familiarization</strong>.<br />
If you are starting out at a new preschool, visit before the first day and take a tour of the school.  Tell your child how they get to be big now and go to school.  Show them where their things will belong.  Find out what they will be doing on their first day.  Most schools have a schedule with themes and activities mapped out.  You can talk about how they get to paint today, or they are learning about clowns.  Get your child excited about what they will be doing. Prepare them by telling them what to expect.</li>
<li><strong>Don&#8217;t over sensationalize</strong>.<br />
When the day arrives to take them to school, don’t make a big deal about saying goodbye.  Help them hang up their things and take them to their teacher.  Give them a quick kiss or hug and say goodbye.  Then turn around and leave.  This is the hardest part &#8211; walking away.  Dragging out the goodbyes only makes it more emotional for your child.  If you don’t act like you will be missing them throughout the day, they won’t act that way either. If you are tense and worried, your child will pick that feeling up from you.</li>
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<p>Having your child go to preschool for the first time can be an emotional experience for both parent and child. It may be rough the first few weeks especially if your child is going through separation anxiety. Don&#8217;t deny their feelings. Instead, acknowledge them. Then keep on reassuring them and soon, the difficult part will past. Don&#8217;t forget to work with the teachers and get their input. They&#8217;ve faced many such situations. They are your best ally.</p>
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		<title>Kids Activities To Keep Them Away From Television</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Aug 2010 08:23:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>lian</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Here's a list of activities you can do with your children instead of turning on the television as their entertainment.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s not good for children to watch too much television. Unfortunately, many of us mothers find television to be a very useful babysitter. If you are cracking your head on how to keep your children busy and away from the television, here are some ideas.</p>
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<li>Do simple crafts. Little children can do some gluing e.g. gluing beans on an art paper to form the letter B.  There are lots of things you can do with paper plates and toilet rolls too.  See how I did this <a href="http://blog.valuebookshop.com/2008/kite-craft/">kite craft</a> with my kids.  If you need more craft ideas, check out this affiliate link: <a href="http://f9b25cy-q-fmek8ckivehepatr.hop.clickbank.net/?tid=VBBLOG">LITTLE KIDS CRAFTS</a></li>
<li>Older children can learn origami.</li>
<li>Maybe someone&#8217;s birthday is coming up, or a celebration like Christmas or Father&#8217;s Day. How about crafting a card.</li>
<li><a href="http://blog.valuebookshop.com/2010/make-a-candy-flower-bouquet-for-mothers-day/">Make a candy flower</a>.  Or a <a href="http://blog.valuebookshop.com/2008/mothers-day-craft-lollipop-flower/">lollipop flower</a>.</li>
<li>Teach them to <a href="http://blog.valuebookshop.com/2010/keeping-kids-busy-with-manga-drawing/">do some Manga drawing</a>.</li>
<li>Give them balloons to play with. Oh, this one will definitely keep them occupied for a long while. You can also encourage them to draw on the balloons. This is actually a good pre-writing activity.</li>
<li>Alternatively, make water balloons for them to burst. Of course this one has to be done outside the house.</li>
<li>Playdoh. Here is a recipe for <a href="http://mamasbagoftricks.blogspot.com/2006/10/time-for-playdoh.html">uncooked playdoh</a> and another for <a href="http://mamasbagoftricks.blogspot.com/2008/09/striving-to-make-perfect-playdoh.html">cooked playdoh</a>.</li>
<li>Go bicycling.</li>
<li>Make cookies or muffins together.</li>
<li>Play boardgames, card games, puzzles and many other kinds of interesting indoor games you can find on the shelves of at the stores.</li>
<li>Bubbles</li>
<li>Singing time. Sing nursery songs, folk songs, church primary songs etc&#8230;.</li>
<li>Read books.</li>
<li>Make a smoothie.</li>
<li>Play with Lego or building blocks.</li>
<li>Put out the kiddy swimming pool.</li>
<li>Playing with a ball. Use it to bowl over some bottles. Try to throw it into a box or your laundry basket.  Toss it up and catch it to improve coordination.</li>
<li>Play hide and seek. An alternative is you hide their teddy bear (or whatever) and they have to find it.</li>
<li>Pretend play. Pretend to be a doctor and care for all the injured soft toys. Pretend to work in a restaurant where they need to take people&#8217;s orders and cook the food. Pretend to be a teacher.</li>
<li>Play charades. Take turns acting out something and the other has to guess what it is.</li>
<li>Give them simple house chores like wiping dust off the furniture.</li>
<li>Give them blankets and sheets to put over chairs and tables to make like a camp.</li>
<li>Let them watch you as you cook. Teach them the name of foods and vegetables. Give them kitchen tips like &#8220;how come mommy doesn&#8217;t cut her hand when she cuts the vegetables?&#8221;</li>
<li>Make and play with sock puppets.</li>
<li>Take a walk round the neighborhood and count stuff like trees, cars, houses etc&#8230;.</li>
<li>Make flowers out of colored tissue paper. Here&#8217;s a video to show you how.</li>
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<p>There are lots of things children can do, so don&#8217;t just let them sit in front of the television. What are some things that you do to keep your children away from the television?</p>
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		<title>Free Reading &amp; Spelling Program Giveaway from ClickN KIDS</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Apr 2010 23:59:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>lian</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Fantastic news! You can easily obtain an account with ClickN KIDS for F.R.E.E. ClickN Kids have 2 programs: ClickN READ Phonics and ClickN SPELL. You can get either one for free if you are among the first 100 Fans to post a product review on their Facebook Page www.Facebook.com/ClickNKIDSFanpage Here are the rules: To qualify [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Fantastic news! You can easily obtain an account with ClickN KIDS for F.R.E.E.<br />
ClickN Kids have 2 programs: ClickN READ Phonics and ClickN SPELL. </p>
<p>You can get either one for free if you are among the first 100 Fans to post a product review on their Facebook Page <a href="www.Facebook.com/ClickNKIDSFanpage">www.Facebook.com/ClickNKIDSFanpage</a></p>
<p>Here are the rules:<br />
To qualify you must you must become a Fan of the ClickN KIDS Facebook page.Then go to their webpage to try a Free lesson of both ClickN SPELL and ClickN READ Phonics. You can access their webpage by clicking my affiliate link below:<br />
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Then post a brief review of both products on the ClickN KIDS Facebook Fan page www.Facebook.com/ClickNKIDSFanpage. The first 100 fans that posts reviews will be contacted to redeem their free account. Limit one per household. ClickN KIDS reserves the right to remove inappropriate posts.</p>
<p>Good luck. If you don&#8217;t get a free account from them but you&#8217;re still interested in the program, you can use this discount coupon to get 25% off.<br />
<strong>Code: CNKSAVE25 (Valid 4/1/10 – 6/31/10)</strong></p>
<p>Below are my reviews on both the programs:</p>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://valuebookshop.com/2009/clickn-spell-kids-spelling-software/">ClickN SPELL Kids Spelling Software</a></li>
<li><a href="http://valuebookshop.com/2009/learn-phonics-online/">Learn Phonics Online: ClickN READ</a></li>
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